No, you are not the only person who feels completely alone.
No, you are not the only person who doesn’t think anyone will ever love you.
No, you are not the only person who cries yourself to sleep.
No, you are not the only person who’s hurting.
As much as you may think that (and as much as I do), NONE of that is true. You are not the only one who feels that way…so you’re NOT alone. So don’t whine all over the internet about how lonely you are all the time, it makes you look like you’re only seeking attention. If you want to REALLY start to feel better, find all those lonely souls who are looking for you and TALK to them. No texting, instant messaging…TALKING. Like on the phone…or on Skype…or if possible, IN PERSON. Unless you’re Nobel Prize winning person for the most emotionally written book on earth…THAT DOES NOT HELP ANYTHING. A screen is not a person. Sure, it is a way to “keep in touch” or “make plans,” but it does not convey emotion quite like your voice and your eyes CAN.
As a person who feels this way constantly, I can assure you that typing words on a screen does absolutely nothing. And you have absolutely no idea how badly I want to have a physical presence that I can hold, talk to, and feel like myself with. As a matter of fact, not even talk…I need someone who can look into my eyes and not need to hear a word to understand how I feel. Personally, I really suck at the whole talking thing, which is part of my problem…and it’s seriously screwed up a lot of things that could potentially have been great for me. I’m almost 22…I’ve never had anyone to call “mine” - and the worst part is…I only had one REAL chance for that and I blew it. If you’re still in your teens, you still have a chance to not become…well, me. And even I’m still pretty young…even though I know I screwed EVERYTHING up already in my short life. As a teen, even though depression had me in it’s grasp, I had more confidence in myself…but now that I have completely isolated myself for the past 3 years now…I’ve lost almost ALL of my friends (except for one), I’ve gained a lot of weight, I have no job, I’m not in school, and the only person I’ve ever really cared about (even though this person pretty much ruined my self esteem, played with my emotions, and all that great stuff) has been avoiding me since my senior prom back in 2011…even though for the first half was staring at me a lot.
But that doesn’t matter. I got off track. I didn’t mean to get into that stuff…but back to the topic at hand. If you are given the opportunity to meet someone who you KNOW will love you and care about you and understand you…JUST GO. Take a chance…don’t wimp out like I did.
Once you get a taste of sleeping next to someone, sleeping alone in your own bed really sucks.
I had a time where I got so lonely in my own bed that I had to sleep on the couch for two weeks…
I’ve never done it but I have a body pillow and that just sounds really sad…
Girls, when you’re feeling sad, just remember:
- a vagina can go back to it’s original size after taking something 20x its size
- a penis will end up looking like an empty potato sack that’s been run over quite a lot if it does
You can do this girl.
Be as resilient as your vagina.
Shine bright like a ‘gina
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Tumblr can be so interesting sometimes…
Except for one time a month when it makes you a homicidal maniac.
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